Cry Girls
Cry Girls:Finally, a guide with specific things you want to console your friend! No more vague statements saying about her, you love them-they are clear and accessible work. Whether she is sick, sad or anxious, the following steps are sure that they feel better (also works if you’re not her boyfriend). These are sweet, foolproof ways to cheer them up and make you their hero.
Steps
1.Hug her. Embracing works for every person in every situation. Find a private place where they can calm down and pull it towards you, but do not suffocate. Be firm but gentle, soft rock or even knock back is good if you’ve been together a while. The point is, hugging her to feel safe and secure.
2.Distract her. Talk to me softly, and turn attention away from whatever they interfere. Getting her to talk to you is good, but a conversation is sometimes impossible, especially she is crying. Even if they do not respond, leave her encouraging words murmured in his ear.
3.Ask her what is wrong. If they do not want to tell you, not pressure her. But an idea of disturbing what they can help to alleviate their anxiety, sadness, etc.
4.Light acts touching miracles. Even if you’re just a friend, these physical touches so small, they are not overly affectionate. If you hold your hands, use your thumb to small circles on the back of the hand rub. She has run his thumb over the knuckles the same effect. Place one hand on the small of her back is associated with the first step, and you can gently hold her against you in this way. Try also stroked her hair.
5.Have patience. If your friend is sobbing openly, it takes a while to shout about. Use these steps as long as necessary until they calmed down’s. She will love you for it.
Tips
* Try a private place, they certainly do not want seen crying in public, and it will help her focus on you.
* If it is shorter than you, it’s always nice to her head stuck under the chin when you hug. Remember that her face is turned to the side or do not work it has to be.
* A move to another offer, tilt to her chin so she sees you in the eyes.
* Some cry girls say they want to be left alone if they cry, even if they do not want to be comforted. It is difficult to say whether they really want you or not go away, so keep your distance, but do not go too far, as they may later change their minds.
* Similar to the last tip, say girls who are afraid / nervous about it may be, and that they are not. If your friend does, they are probably not very anxious, and your best bet is to go with a teasing answer. Smile coyly and say, “Do not worry darling, I’ll protect you,” or something like that. This is a good time to play until your ‘Bad Boy’ page.
* Even small things! Experiment to see what she likes most and when. If it’s a scary movie by your arm around them and give a squeeze is all it takes, but comforting a crying girl is totally different (Hint-even dry their tears, you can follow to easily stroke her cheek or mouth.)
* Note that this is about her feel better, not an opportunity for you to appear more attractive in the eyes. Make sure that they accept everything you do and respect their boundaries.
Warnings
* If she is crying or anxiety, she could not talk about what bothers them. Do not press their answers.
* While hugging is great, kissing is not always appropriate. If they will want you to kiss her.
* If they are not the delicate nature, they may be embarrassed to see you cry or deny that she is upset. Most cry girls need a shoulder to cry, but when it comes to exciting seen upset, then it is best to give her what she wants and to insure that it is okay to cry or fear.
* Most cry girls will appreciate your attempts to comfort her, but some prefer to be alone when they are excited. If they look like or say they want to be alone again and give her some space. Do not go too far because it could change your mind later.
* Be careful with humor to lighten the mood. You could thank you for your efforts, but it is very possible that you crack jokes fall flat.
